For spiritual growth, emotional intelligence is a blind spot or a missing link for many of the “fires” ministers have to attempt to put out. EQ is the missing link for many involved in the restoration of a purity ministry. EQ is the missing link for disciples who just can’t seem to get unstuck in their lives. EQ, no matter how committed we are to spiritual disciplines, is imperative for many and their relationship with God, peak performance and growth.

One of the most challenging journeys that many who follow Christ experience is that of singleness. If there is a book to address the specific emotional-spiritual needs singles have, this book is the one. It should be a principal read. As a mental health professional who integrates spirituality, Cresenda Jones addresses emotional-spiritual challenges with clarity. Although the book is informative, it also provides space for a process to take place. Cresenda helps the reader all the way from assessment to action steps. In addition to a process-oriented approach, she addresses the deeply complicated aspects that are unique to singleness. Furthermore, her own transparency with regard to her own losses is as piercing a testimonial as I’ve come across in some time. One of the most exciting aspects of Cresenda’s approach is her understanding of trauma. Cresenda displays an advanced understanding. I endorse Cresenda’s approach, as her material addresses the crux of trauma, our subconscious selves. Romans 8:28 is an apt scripture that sums up what Cresenda communicates in this book. Her book is a survival guide for those who want to go from surviving to thriving.

Without emotional intelligence and personal growth, our lives will be like the seed that fell among thorns (Luke 8:14). We will not be able to most effectively or spiritually handle life’s worries, riches, and pleasures, and we will not mature. This book addresses issues that we must consider in order to live as emotionally, spiritually, and relationally mature adults. Not a “quick read” book, it contains scriptures to contemplate, personal sharing, paradigm-changing insights, and reflection questions.